24) What’s gone wrong with us?

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What’s gone wrong with you..?

You tear a person into pieces, leaving her soul unease.

Raped her by your gang wolves!

Slaughter her with no guild with blood and brazenness!

Hit her and throw her out of a moving bus!

Have you cherish the beautiful life around you..?

And do you know how lovely it is to chase each other around the coconut tree?

How entertaining Bollywood show can be?

And you did that in return, to tarnish all should have been!

For sure, she is not going to rest in peace!

It would be a joke, if they asked her to do so!

Is this a joke, if it’s going to happen to your family?

Will you still be laughing and kicking?

And what an irony!

She was offered a marriage in return to close the case!

She asked “What’s gone wrong with us?”

Before she tears off freely…with a shattered heart in agony.

In memory for the two victims gang raped by the locals in India, eventually one committed suicide and one died of serious injury in a Singapore Hospital.

My heart goes to the victims and the families.  It’s very sad and disheartening to see such crimes happening over and over again.


45 thoughts on “24) What’s gone wrong with us?

    Maxima said:
    December 30, 2012 at 1:43 am

    Dear my friend ,May your life just make beautiful things , the soul remains eternally young and tender , all you desire shall be yours, and just let the tears of joy ! I wish to you a Happy New Year to be blessed with happiness, good health, prosperity,
    and also your entire family!

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 1:57 am

      Thanks, Maxima! You are so kind and sweet!
      Let’s look forward a better, brighter and warmer tomorrow!

    yarnwuseleien.wordpress.com said:
    December 30, 2012 at 1:54 am

    I am the second week speechless and shocked. I hope the young indian Lady find peace and love in heaven. God bless the parents of her and the family and friends.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 2:01 am

      Yes, Magdalena! I feel so sorry for them!
      I really wish them rest in peace in the heavenly land!

    boomiebol said:
    December 30, 2012 at 2:06 am

    Very sad

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 2:09 am

      Yes! I still can’t get over now…..

    cindy knoke said:
    December 30, 2012 at 2:28 am

    Excellent Sydney!

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 12:15 pm

      Thanks, Cindy! I am so touch you visit my post at this hour!
      Sleep well!

    Jueseppi B. said:
    December 30, 2012 at 2:33 am

    Reblogged this on The ObamaCrat.Com™ and commented:
    Whats gone wrong with us? Good question Sydney. As of yet, there is no acceptable answer, reason or excuse for the world wide violence against women OR against humans period. Globally we humans need help to become humane.

    Thank you for this post Sydney and I want to wish you, your family & friends a wonderfully joyous and healthy, safe, fun Happy New Year….Namaste.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 12:22 pm

      Yes,in some way we are humane, but at some point we are not better than beast!
      Haha! back to Sydney norm self again!
      I wish you happy and healthy thru-out the whole 2013! Huat ah (prosperous in dialect)!

    Po' Girl Shines said:
    December 30, 2012 at 2:58 am

    Very strange that some cannot conceive of the notion of why the heck would you do something to someone else, that you would never want done to you. This is pure evil and hypocrisy. This is not even violence that is revenge or self-defense, it is unreasoned hatred that leads some to sociopathic, animalistic behavior like this. Sad that there are so few heroes in the world. Brave and strong and at least willing to try to stop such evil. This is why we are here. To be each other heroes.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 12:31 pm

      Yes, what has gone wrong with us?
      Is a question that simple to ask but deep to answer!
      I sincerely wish some power people stop all these sinful acts,show more love to our Planet. No more wars, violence and many many more…..
      Thanks, pogirlshines! I wish you be a shinning star in 2013!

    Bupe Rose said:
    December 30, 2012 at 3:31 am

    Very very tragic. We need solutions and answers to these gender-based atrocities. We need to start doing and hearing and reading about change. The lives of these precious souls need to count for something…

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 12:13 pm

      Ya, so sad! I was really grieve over for whole day!
      That is why I like to be a Blogger, a place I can sound out, a place I can highlight, a place we share and learn and not to be repeated when is demon act.
      Thanks for your reading, Rose! Cheers!

    Clanmother said:
    December 30, 2012 at 6:10 am

    A profound and moving tribute….thank you!!!

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 12:07 pm

      You are most!
      I hope I did not spoil your mood today! Cheers!

        Clanmother said:
        December 30, 2012 at 1:14 pm

        You always give a lift to my day. You continue to be a positive influence for good… I am so glad that we connected over the blogger miles..

        Sydney Fong responded:
        December 30, 2012 at 6:20 pm

        Thanks, Clanmother! You are always so encouraging to me!
        Enjoy the last weekend of 2012!

    bert0001 said:
    December 30, 2012 at 6:30 am

    I cannot like this post, but I sincerely hope that these women did not die for nothing and that the indian nation will grow towards a state where freedom is really there for everyone, regardless of gender, caste or age.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 12:06 pm

      Thanks, Bert! Till now, I still wondering what is the cause of it?
      It could be the up bring,education or is just simply a Satan!
      Thanks once more! I wish you a healthy and wealthy 2013!

        bert0001 said:
        December 30, 2012 at 5:30 pm

        women are never safe in India. They get touched and pinched and squeezed all the time in busy places or in public transport. In India, a large minority of uneducated men see women as a an object. They never see them as a mother or sister or daughter.
        Given the ‘wrong’ circumstances, and a group of crazy drunk men with this mentality, and you get the background of what is happening to 10000 women in Delhi alone per year.

        Sydney Fong responded:
        December 30, 2012 at 6:13 pm

        Isn’t it sad it become a norm? Or it happens daily?
        I’m sure must be somewhere got wrong, some how we know but we just can’t do anythings!
        Cheer! Have a great weekend!

        bert0001 said:
        December 30, 2012 at 6:30 pm

        this is part of not led evolution. call it bad government. attracting people to big cities without giving them education or jobs, removed from their agricultural controlling village mentality. Also spoiling boys in favour of girls. Girls cost too much, boys cannot do anything wrong. Just two things to tackle. If the government doesn’t tackle this, religion usually does in an unfavourable way.
        So there should be a government that really governs, and that does not endlessly talk and talk, and spend to business without doing anything for the people.

        Sydney Fong responded:
        December 30, 2012 at 7:09 pm


        bert0001 said:
        December 30, 2012 at 7:29 pm


        “From Manu up to today, woman has been condemned, for the simple reason that all the so-called saints and mahatmas were living with repressed sexuality — and when you live with repressed sexuality the woman becomes immensely important. Then your whole mind is full of fantasies about women, and naturally one starts feeling that the woman is the cause of all these fantasies. You cannot get them out of your mind because those fantasies are very alluring, fascinating, but the reason is not the woman at all.

        Repress your desire for food and your mind will be full of food. Repress any desire and the repressed desire will take revenge; …

    kelihasablog said:
    December 30, 2012 at 6:31 am

    That’s a beautiful tribute Sydney…. I’m so sorry they had to endure that!!! You did a wonderful thing there.! 😀

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 11:54 am

      I am sorry to put up such a tragic post!
      But this is who I am!
      Sometime I joke, sometime I make fun, Sometime I am on fire!!!
      I am glad you like it! By the way, I notice you changed your Gravatar!
      A back view of a woman, is it you?
      Anyway! enjoy the last weekend of 2012! See you Keli!

    Natalya said:
    December 30, 2012 at 7:04 am

    I heard about those two women who were gang raped and subsequently died, it broke my heart. It’s tragic to think these horrible things are happening to innocent people. Do you know if anything will happen to the rapists? Or are they ‘off the hook’ b/c of a law that doesn’t protect women? Thank you for sharing Sydney. You expressed a terrible tragedy very eloquently.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 11:43 am

      There are some movements changing for the better, I heard!
      But the most Unrepentant things that I strongly belief is the inner self of human being.
      You can cane or take away their live or even throw them into hell but sadly, same things will happen again!
      And again and again…..it could be different form….
      Haha! Never mind, Sydney always look for the bright side of life!
      Cheers! Enjoy your weekend!

        Natalya said:
        December 30, 2012 at 11:38 pm

        Thanks Sydney. Enjoy your weekend too!

    dearrosie said:
    December 30, 2012 at 7:10 am

    I’m so heart-sore about the awful horrible rape that I’m almost speechless. It gives me confidence to carry on when I read such a heartfelt tribute written by a man. Thank you.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 11:29 am

      You are welcome!
      This is part of my responsible in AddGrainOnEarth.
      I am glad you like it! Let’s pray and hope them be find at the other side of the world.

    mydailyminefield said:
    December 30, 2012 at 8:03 am

    I find your blog to be both powerful and yet beautiful. I nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award because of the passion, with which you write. Take care. http://mydailyminefield.com/2012/12/29/very-inspiring-blogger/

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 11:18 am

      No,no award nomination for me.
      I appreciate your thought and invitation.
      But I’ll be Blogging more solid, inspiring and hilarious contents in return.
      I wish you a better, brighter and warmer new year ahead! Cheers!

    Life&Ink said:
    December 30, 2012 at 9:30 am

    It is disheartening indeed. Thank you for being a bright light in this world.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 11:24 am

      Hey! You are most welcome!
      I hope my post wouldn’t spoil your day!

    chris13jkt said:
    December 30, 2012 at 1:04 pm

    So sad to heard what happened to these two Indian ladies. May their soul live a more beautiful life eternally in heaven.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 30, 2012 at 6:22 pm

      Yes, truly sad! I wish this could be a wake up call for all sinful thought!

    sarahneeve said:
    December 31, 2012 at 6:10 am

    Unfortunately, I feel no matter how the word is spread it won’t make the slightest bit of difference. Humanity has gone to the dogs, governments couldn’t give a damn and most people turn their backs to such atrocities because they think it will never happen to them, or they don’t want to believe such things exist. This world is a shadow of what it could be.
    As a woman, I thank you for hilighting the plight of these poor women.

      Sydney Fong responded:
      December 31, 2012 at 9:48 am

      Yes, I am thinking of the same way like you too! This is the way how I express myself, writing a poem to share with the world, not thru the extreme way but a reminding or shall I say a highlight ground.
      Thanks, Sara! Cheers!

    hilal achmar said:
    January 15, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    I saw the angel in you….. 🙂

      Sydney Fong responded:
      January 15, 2013 at 8:07 pm

      Haha! A falling angel!

    CKH888 said:
    February 24, 2013 at 6:07 am

    Reblogged this on Hollywood Pop Candy and commented:
    Re-blogged from the AddGrainOnEarth blog on WP:

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